What is it like to be into bdsm?

Although pop-culture movies and novels have made BDSM more socially acceptable, there is still a huge gap of information and a rift of misinformation between the world of BDSM and vanilla romance. There are really few people who understand and appreciate the dynamics of BDSM. To begin with, BDSM is an acronym for bondage and discipline (BD), Sadism and Masochism (SM) dominance, and Submission (DS).

What is BDSM

Although most women have fantasized and desired to practice BDSM, there is the hesitation from their inhibitions which keeps them from venturing into it. The wonder of “what is it really like to be into BDSM” paint feelings of fear and keep couples from getting into it.
Basically being into BDSM means partaking in the pleasure of assuming the role of a being submissive lover or the dominant lover in a romantic relationship. A submissive and a dominant (sub-dom) relationship is more than the notion of being submissive during sex.
Being submissive implies being in the thrall of your lover and aligning your life to it. For the most part, you dress to impress them or fulfill their wish. It also involves playing games of command and control. A sort of mind games to amuse and excite your partner in the relationship.

The sub-dom relationship

The sub-dom relationship takes control to a whole new level that involves ritualistic (routine and calculated activities) say the use of blindfolds and aromatherapy to prepare for sexual intercourse. Whatever the ritual is, the sub has to follow through and fulfill the wishes of the dom to the letter.
A perfect scene of ritualism in BDSM is the use of intense foreplay by tying up your partner and making them wear a blindfold for intense stimulation by caressing and spanking until the Dom is sated and ready to turn around and engage in actual intercourse.
The fun is usually in the perseverance of the sub to either spanking or stimulation that they cannot keep up with without orgasmic release, which they are not permitted to do according to the rules of the relationship. As for the dom, the pleasure is in fulfilling their fantasy and dominating the sub, by watching the sub put up with the domination.

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