We all love a good fantasy, don’t we? Some of them you may want to share and/or explore with your lover, while others remain deeply private. A fantasy can be about anything, anywhere with anyone, and unsurprisingly, each individual will have a variety of things that excite them. However, there are some common themes that tend to crop up frequently in female sexual fantasies and here are 3 of the most popular:
1. Oral Sex
Yes, the majority of women love to fantasize about giving and receiving pleasure orally. Incidentally, this is one of the most common fantasies for men, too. So, there’s yet another thing we have in common with our male counterparts! It’s unknown quite why oral sex provides such excitement for both sexes. If I had to hazard a guess, I would suggest that it has to do with the intense intimacy involved. Oral sex, to my mind at least, is much more intimate than any other form of sexual contact. However, I suspect it also has to do with the submissive role taken by the giver of oral stimulation and the significant pleasure it can provide the receiver.
2. Being ‘Taken’
Yes, there is something very appealing to many women about the idea of being a fair maiden who is‘taken’ by a handsome, physically strong specimen. In fact, many women even fantasize about being raped. I hesitate to say that, because it gives the impression that somehow women find the idea of rape arousing and this is far from the case. Women who fantasize about being raped, find the reality of rape abhorrent and certainly do not want to experience the trauma in real life. However, it’s something women rarely talk about and, because there can be a lot of guilt pertaining to fantasy, I think it’s an important point to make.
There have been many suggestions made as to why women fantasize about being in submissive sexual roles, one such theory states that women feel “ashamed” of their sexuality and desires. Therefore, the thought of being physically overpowered absolves them of any sense of shame. I’m not sure if I buy this, but there can be no denying the fact that many women enjoy playing a submissive role during some (or in some cases all) of their sexual encounters.
3. Sex in Public
Having sex in public, or a public place (the workplace being one of the most popular) where there is a chance of being ‘caught-in-the-act’ is another very common and very arousing fantasy. Again, this is not something that every women would want to experience in reality. However, some of you might want to take a little walk on the wild side to explore the danger involved.
No matter what you’re fantasy, it is important to recognize it as just that. Regardless of how kinky, naughty or slightly pervy they may be, it is nothing for you to feel ashamed or guilty about. Embrace your fantasies, because they can provide fast-track routes to intense arousal, which will greatly improve your sexual enjoyment.